We need you

 http://jackchen2012.blogetery.com/2012/09/14/my-situation-is-not-the-worst/
The hospital ward, two lived the same terminally ill patients, different from a country village, a living in the city hospital. Living in a city hospital patients, every day, friends and colleagues to visit. People came in relief said: home, you can rest assured, and we do, you will recover from illness. When friends visit comfort said: old song, and now you think of nothing, just a one-track mind recuperate. To advise to say: you are at ease, the unit 's matter, we can arrange for you, you now is to work ... ...
From the countryside to patients, only a twelve years old boy watch. His wife of ten days and a half months to come once, or money, or send some clothes. His wife come every time, always kept saying this and that, should the husband things for the home with your mind; to soaking, this is a " six four " or " four six "? Two days later, his uncle to married women, you said to get many gifts? Mei Zi said to her cousin to " go out ", I have promised it to you, with your mind ... ...
A few months later, living in the city of patients in the family sad manner so cries were gone forever; and from the countryside of patients was miraculously survived.
Life in the hospital in the city of the patient, the family, friends, colleagues sound "you worry ", " you can recover from illness. " comfort in sound, sense of feeling that they had need not own, own also lost the living value, gradually lost the confidence and courage to overcome disease and in the lonely, disease and phagocytosis of dying.
From the countryside to patients, in the wife big and small are to decide, mind, consciousness in the sense of family on their indispensable, the important for his family, must be aware of their live, even just to get some idea of the family, so a strong desire that he miraculously survived down.
" You can rest assured ", " you will feel at ease recuperate bar ", the vast majority of cases it is well-intentioned comfort. But in some special situation, it seems like the axe cut, cut the umbilical cord or a life cut life boat anchor chain. With " need " to visit our caring friends say without mincing words, tell him: we need you.